Thank you for stopping by the THE GOD KIND blog. I thought I should introduce myself and tell you a little bit about how TGK was birth, so here goes:
I am a young christian woman trying to live for Christ daily. I am a daughter, sister, friend and fiancée. I have had my fair share of dysfunctional relationships, you know the kind of relationships where boy meets girl, they think it will be great to get together and see where things go – AIMLESS and PURPOLESS relationships – Yeah! those kinds. I have been that girl that made excuses for a guy that clearly treated me like dirt and that girl that overstayed her welcome in the relationship. I have been that girl that clung on to a relationship just because we had been together for a few years and I thought to myself ‘where would I start from if we broke up’ (at 22 years old…like seriously?!…I was a mess). But after my last break-up, I decided I was done, and I was not getting involved with anyone else but the person I was going to marry – afterall dating is not a championship sport or a feat where the higher number of exes you have the greater the honour bestowed on you.
So I stopped dating and with God, I started healing – this took a while – but I got there eventually. And as God healed me I started to see how dysfunctional my past relationships were. How did I get myself into such situations? Then every time I saw a lady who was clearly in a similar situation like the ones I used to be in, my heart would break a little and I would want to just walk over to her and let her know she deserved better, fully understanding her struggle to want to succeed in that relationship – I really do understand, having been there, done that. The bible says there is nothing new under the sun (Ecc. 1:9).
So The God Kind (TGK) is really just a platform to encourage and inspire people to godly relationships. These relationships really do exist and they are beautiful. They enhance you, leave you fulfilled and are extremely enjoyable. This is the kind of relationship God intends and has reserved for you and TGK is here to help you aspire to that kind of relationship.
My new relationship mantra is ‘Relationships are to be ENJOYED not ENDURED’.
I do not claim to know it all but then again The One who knows it all is on the inside of me so you can relax and be sure you are in safe hands.
Thank you again for stopping by.
The God Kind Counsellor.